Well well well...
Now for something completely out of the ordinary.
Or not!
I have this terrible habit of listening to depressing songs when I get depressed. Which then pushes me over the edge of a swirling tempest of bitterness, resentment, anger and unbelievable sadness.
I realized this a while back... When I was going through some trying friendship/relationship problems and having weird random breakdowns every two and a half days.
THUS! I have come to the conclusion that the only answer is to listen to HAPPY music. And to say "I. AM. FEELING. GOOD. AND I'M NOT LETTING ANYONE BRING ME DOWN." when you're angry.
SO. The other day I said some stupid, STUPID things to a friend of mine... which I think both hurt them and made them very angry at me.
I realized how stupid and mean these things were and apoligized as best as I could... but I'm pretty sure they're still mad at me.
Annnd... I realized that no matter what I said or did... they were just going to be mad for a while.
Therefore, I'm listening to happy music and putting it behind me. I can't change how they feel. I can only try to be a good friend when they need me to.
Life is good. That is what I have to keep telling myself. And if I will it to be good, it shall be good.
So here's some music for you to listen to and FEEL GOOD.
Live, love and laugh! It's what we all need to be happy, and it's always there for us to grab. :)
Mary J Blige - Just Fine
Nina Simone - Feeling Good.
3 comments:
Well!!! It's about time! :-D
Love you sister!
YES. That is one of the best possible things to realize. If music affects us so much, it makes sense to listen to happy music in order to get in a better mood, yeah? Love it.
Love you!
Something I should try to remember. :-) How we decide to feel...
Good post!
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